《大长今》
《大长今》好好看哦！！Wow.. Looking forward to switch on the TV every weekdays at 10pm, Channel U for this Korean Drama. This show (True story) is superb, its about how this little gal by the name of Changjin whose parents die for some military reason was posted to work as a maid in the palace. This show really touches me, how this cute little gals aim to be the top lady of the kitchen, went through many shit chores & bully, kanna backstab & disturb because she is always smarter then the rest (No parents so other despise her).. I like her attitude in the show, never say Die spirit.. She is someone who dare to voice her opinion even if she is going against the norm as long as she thinks is right (Many practise of Favourtism in the palace).. Once her Shifu told her that in order to get to the top, you must know what are your goal, be aggressive towards it, work for it & be unique (Ignore how people view you, the more they bully you, the more you help them in their chores, one day they will eventually accept & respect you)..
To be honest, I like to watch TV serial more then movie, Movies are all about Effects & big celebrities.. But serial tell alot of true happenings.. Corruption, Backstabbing, Kinship, Love, Property fighting & Life.. Some may think.. Aiya TV serials all bullshit & rubbish.. At 1st I was like most of you until I grow older & the scenario happen in my life.. My mum told me that TV drama is like Reality or not how the director & writer produce the show (Most writer get their ideas from the people around, what really happen in the real world etc) ??? Watch TV is like reading a book, they do happen in life eventhough most are stated frictional..
Alot of people tell me they like reading my blog, KaoZz my GP D7 leh haha.. Ask me to write daily, too bad I’m not creative & scare I may offend people & become another Changjin from that korean Serial.. Then kanna backstab for no reason hehe..
I got some analogy (Spell wrongly) which I remember whenever I listen to FM 933 during preparation of exams.. Hope its meaningful.
1) It was winter, this little bird fell from a tree & landed into a lump of cow dunk.. The bird was complaining of the smell & cursing.. Then came this Cat who offer to bring the bird out.. The bird was happy.. In the End.. " Yummy !!!", the cat say.. (Easy to guess right ?)
This story tell us that whenever you kanna Shit from someone, it doesn’t mean the person is harming you (Like the warm cow dunk that prevent the little bird from freezing to death).. Those that always give you a helping hand will never harm you.. Remember blessing always come in Disguise as well as those who want to harm you.. 
2) This teacher draw a dot on the Whiteboard & ask the Class what do they see.. The class instantly reply, the black Dot.. The teacher shaked his head & say, can’t you see the whole white surface on the whiteboard ???
This scene tell us that people only remember & focus their attention on other people mistake & negative points (No matter how small).. People seldom look at the big picture & like to look at individual Fault & draw conclusion.. Let look at Bill Clinton, He prevented US to go into a recession during his 8 years as President.. What do people remember him for now??? His Sex Scandal.. So sad, people will never remember how great you are when you make any silly mistake eventhough it may not even concern them.. Pui !!!
3) This Daughter asked her mum how to maintain a relationship, since she is going to get marry on the next day. The Mum ask her hold a pile of sand in her hand & softly clench her fist.. then later she told her to crench hard her fist.. The Daughter finally realise what her mum want to indicate to her.
Relastionship is like clenching a pile of sand (Sand indicate your relationship) in your hand (Hand indicate Trust), the harder you hold tight, the more Sand you spill out.. Its as though when you don’t trust what your partner is doing & you grap hold of him more often, his faith & feeling in you will slowly diminish & eventually leave you.. On the other hand, If you trust your partner, & give him the freedom to do watever he like, the relationship will be as strong as ever as nothing spill out from your hand.. This may not only happen for relationship, but also for working as a team.. You have faith in what your committees are doing (Trust them), the project will succeed & everyone is happy.. If you are always supicious of their capability & like to draw conclusion & look at people bad points, then the project will never succeed as plan..
That all Folks (",)
